{"id":347,"date":"2020-06-30T16:53:46","date_gmt":"2020-06-30T15:53:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/oxfordhealth.nhs.uk\/irl\/?page_id=347"},"modified":"2023-01-12T15:58:58","modified_gmt":"2023-01-12T15:58:58","slug":"self-esteem","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/oxfordhealth.nhs.uk\/camhs\/self-care\/mental-health\/self-esteem\/","title":{"rendered":"Boost your self esteem"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Self-esteem is the way we see ourselves, it is how positively you feel and think about yourself and life in general.<\/p>\n<h2>What can I do?<\/h2>\n<p>There are many ways to work towards increasing your self confidence:<\/p>\n<div class=\"ohft-box gray\">\n<p><strong>Look after yourself<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 try eating healthy foods, getting a good amount of sleep, exercising even if it\u2019s just walking the dog.<\/div>\n<div class=\"ohft-box gray\">\n<p><strong>Beware of negative thoughts<\/strong>\u00a0and try to replace them with positive thoughts. If this is hard, create a notebook or list on your phone with some examples.<\/div>\n<div class=\"ohft-box gray\">\n<p><strong>Build positive relationships<\/strong>, try and share your feelings with a friend or someone close who you can talk to about it.<\/div>\n<div class=\"ohft-box gray\">\n<p><strong>Spend time with friends and family<\/strong>\u00a0who are positive and appreciate you.<\/div>\n<div class=\"ohft-box gray\">\n<p><strong>Do things you enjoy.<\/strong><\/div>\n<div class=\"ohft-box gray\">\n<p><strong>Create goals<\/strong>\u00a0have something to aim for. Achieving them will increase your self-esteem.<\/div>\n<div class=\"ohft-box gray\">\n<p><strong>Start saying &#8216;no&#8217;.<\/strong>\u00a0Don\u2019t feel you have to say yes to other people if you do not want to. This can lead to you feeling angry and overrun.<\/div>\n<div class=\"ohft-box gray\">\n<p><strong>Recognise what you are good at<\/strong>\u00a0and write them down. Keep them to hand.<\/div>\n<h2>Low self-esteem is normal<\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s normal to sometimes struggle with your feelings and everyone worries from time to time \u2013 whatever your age, race or gender.<\/p>\n<h2>How does it affect me?<\/h2>\n<p>The way you feel may affect how you behave, you might not want to take part in activities if you don\u2019t think you can do them well, or you might struggle to go out and talk to others.<\/p>\n<div class=\"nhsuk-care-card nhsuk-care-card--non-urgent\">\n                <div class=\"nhsuk-care-card__heading-container\">\n                    <h3 class=\"nhsuk-care-card__heading\"><span role=\"text\"><span class=\"nhsuk-u-visually-hidden\">Non-urgent advice: <\/span>Other support available<\/span><\/h3>\n                    <span class=\"nhsuk-care-card__arrow\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/span>\n                <\/div>\n                <div class=\"nhsuk-care-card__content\">\n<p>Child Line has\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.childline.org.uk\/Explore\/FeelingsEmotions\/Pages\/Self-esteem.aspx\">some great advice<\/a>, including how to cope with nasty comments, listening to music, doing good things for others, and answering questions in class.<\/p>\n<p>Young Minds\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.youngminds.org.uk\/for_children_young_people\/better_mental_health\/believe_in_yourself%E2%80%98\">Believe in Yourself\u2019<\/a>\u00a0page also has some good suggestions for boosting self-confidence.<\/p>\n<p>Find out what\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.childline.org.uk\/Explore\/FeelingsEmotions\/Pages\/Self-esteem.aspx\">ChildLine<\/a>\u00a0has to say about building your confidence and self-esteem.<\/p>\n<p>Alternatively, speak to a trusted person about how you are feeling\u037e this could be family, friends or even a school counsellor. You could also try speaking to your GP who may be able to recommend some ways for you to boost your self-esteem.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n            <\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Self-esteem is the way we see ourselves, it is how positively you feel and think about yourself and life in general. What can I do? 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