{"id":195668,"date":"2024-04-18T13:20:45","date_gmt":"2024-04-18T12:20:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/oxfordhealth.nhs.uk\/camhs\/?page_id=195668"},"modified":"2024-04-18T13:24:53","modified_gmt":"2024-04-18T12:24:53","slug":"newbold-hope","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/oxfordhealth.nhs.uk\/camhs\/carers\/family-ambassadors\/do-you-feel-alone-with-your-childs-difficult-and-dangerous-behaviour\/newbold-hope\/","title":{"rendered":"Newbold Hope"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>Difficult and dangerous behaviour<\/h2>\n<p>Does your child sometimes become violent?\u00a0 Is this targeted at family members?\u00a0 This is not your fault.\u00a0 Please take a look at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.newboldhope.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Home &#8211; Newbold Hope<\/a> which is run entirely by parents who have been through this with their own child, with strategies that are tried and tested.\u00a0 There are 17 training courses covering topics such as &#8216;Reduce Extreme Behaviour&#8217;, &#8216;Controlling Behaviour&#8217;, &#8216;Anxiety&#8217;, &#8216;Change Transitions Routine&#8217;, which 98% of parents have reported making them feel more confident in their parenting abilities.\u00a0 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.newboldhope.com\/webinars1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Training Courses &#8211; Newbold Hope<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"ohft-box gray\">\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.newboldhope.com\/the-basics\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Violent and Challenging Behaviour &#8211; The Basics<\/a>\u00a0 is your family coping with ongoing violence and challenging behaviour (VCB) from your child with a neurodevelopmental disorder?\u00a0 This guide contains some basic information from a parent&#8217;s perspective.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.newboldhope.com\/the-link-between-anxiety-and-meltdowns\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Link Between Anxiety &amp; Meltdowns<\/a> describes why anxiety causes fear and ultimately aggressive behaviour in our young people, the &#8216;fight or flight&#8217; behaviour.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.newboldhope.com\/this-is-not-your-fault\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">This is NOT Your Fault<\/a> are you being heard and listened to?\u00a0 You are not alone.\u00a0 This resource discusses how to look after yourself first, when managing a child with VCB.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.newboldhope.com\/page\/283939?delivery_id=1900965878&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_campaign=1882965-how-has-your-child-coped-at-school-in&amp;utm_source=lists\/133285-Newbold-Hopes-Newsletter&amp;simplero_object_id=su_RQvP2og1Qbud9azxT6tbqpQ1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Twelve Points for Professionals<\/a> Difficult and dangerous behaviour in children and young people, why it can happen and how you can help.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<h2>Podcasts<\/h2>\n<div class=\"ohft-box gray\">\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/yvonne_newbold_how_to_meet_your_child_s_difficult_behavior_with_compassion\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How to meet your child&#8217;s difficult behaviour with compassion<\/a> a TED talk by Yvonne Newbold focusing on moving from anxiety led behaviour to happier times.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<h2><strong>Links to top 10 videos<\/strong><\/h2>\n<div class=\"ohft-box gray\">\n<p>Each of these 10 short videos looks at a different aspect of how to help and support children who have extreme behaviours.\u00a0 They give an insightful overview of why sometimes children can be violent, destructive, controlling or verbally abusive, and what adults can do to help them cope more calmly in the world around them.\u00a0 These videos are by <a href=\"https:\/\/yvonnenewbold.com\/yvonnes-top-ten-videos-on-send-vcb\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Yvonne Newbold<\/a>.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/OpMhHjllp9Q\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Why it&#8217;s anxiety led and not difficult behaviour<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/F3Lb4EF7OB4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Why it&#8217;s not your fault<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/fgtM-EX-s1Q\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Why traditional parenting strategies don&#8217;t work for our children<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/Q4xmJTI0K7A\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Why Sensory Processing difficulties can impact on behaviour<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/gVqrLMfLp4E\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">All about communication and how you can help a child<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/e_A-kIRUBQ4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">All about routine, change and transitions<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/KYGIAI7aDf0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How to reduce violent meltdowns from happening<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/KhE8JqBrT30\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">What to do during violent meltdowns<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/j4AWxBVE-08\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How to keep going<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/MskvDGGONJc\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">This one is especially for the children<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Difficult and dangerous behaviour Does your child sometimes become violent?\u00a0 Is this targeted at family members?\u00a0 This is not your fault.\u00a0 Please take a look at Home &#8211; Newbold Hope which is run entirely by parents who have been through this with their own child, with strategies that are tried and tested.\u00a0 There are 17 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":194740,"menu_order":1,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"template-selfhelp.php","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_relevanssi_hide_post":"","_relevanssi_hide_content":"","_relevanssi_pin_for_all":"","_relevanssi_pin_keywords":"","_relevanssi_unpin_keywords":"","_relevanssi_related_keywords":"","_relevanssi_related_include_ids":"","_relevanssi_related_exclude_ids":"","_relevanssi_related_no_append":"","_relevanssi_related_not_related":"","_relevanssi_related_posts":"","_relevanssi_noindex_reason":"","footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-195668","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/oxfordhealth.nhs.uk\/camhs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/195668","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/oxfordhealth.nhs.uk\/camhs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/oxfordhealth.nhs.uk\/camhs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oxfordhealth.nhs.uk\/camhs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oxfordhealth.nhs.uk\/camhs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=195668"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/oxfordhealth.nhs.uk\/camhs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/195668\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":195673,"href":"https:\/\/oxfordhealth.nhs.uk\/camhs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/195668\/revisions\/195673"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oxfordhealth.nhs.uk\/camhs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/194740"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/oxfordhealth.nhs.uk\/camhs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=195668"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}