{"id":192872,"date":"2021-07-13T16:24:07","date_gmt":"2021-07-13T15:24:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/oxfordhealth.nhs.uk\/camhs\/?page_id=192872"},"modified":"2023-12-20T08:58:03","modified_gmt":"2023-12-20T08:58:03","slug":"sexuality","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/oxfordhealth.nhs.uk\/camhs\/self-care\/sexuality\/","title":{"rendered":"Sexuality"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sexuality is a complex concept which combines how you feel about your body and body image, your gender, your feelings, who you\u2019re attracted to and what you want from life.<\/p>\n<h2>Sexual orientation<\/h2>\n<p>Sexual orientation is how you choose to express your sexuality in relation to others.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It is really important<\/strong> that you and others understand that <a href=\"https:\/\/oxfordhealth.nhs.uk\/camhs\/self-care\/gender-identity\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>gender identity<\/strong><\/a> is separate from your sexual orientation or identity, although it may affect it.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Irrespective of your identified gender, you may see yourself in terms of sexual identity as straight\/heterosexual \u2013 fancy the opposite sex<\/li>\n<li>gay\/lesbian\/homosexual \u2013 fancy the same sex<\/li>\n<li>bisexual \u2013 fancy both<\/li>\n<li>have no sexual identity at the moment<\/li>\n<li>something else<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>About the term \u2018LGBTQ+\u2019<\/h2>\n<p>LGBTQ+ is a term currently used to describe sexual orientations other than heterosexual\/straight.<\/p>\n<p>It stands for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer (or sometimes \u2018questioning\u2019) and the + represents \u2018others\u2019.<\/p>\n<h2>Knowing your sexual orientation<\/h2>\n<p>Some young people know their sexual orientation from an early age, others take longer to work it out.<\/p>\n<p>As with other areas of human development, sexual orientation may change as we get older \u2013 it is not necessarily something which is set in stone.<\/p>\n<p>Sexual orientation is an individual choice and young people should not feel that the sexual preferences of others should affect the choices that they make in this regard.<\/p>\n<h2>Feeling confused or unsure about your sexual orientation<\/h2>\n<p>When you\u2019re feeling confused about your sexual orientation, it can make you feel:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>anxious<\/li>\n<li>angry<\/li>\n<li>confused<\/li>\n<li>frustrated<\/li>\n<li>upset<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These are completely normal responses to uncertainty and are usually possible to manage with support from parents\/carers and friends.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t feel under pressure from others to go against your feelings and you may need to accept a degree of uncertainty for a while until you feel you have come to a clear decision.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever you are, you know best and it\u2019s OK. \u00a0Be proud of who you are, regardless of what anyone might say.<\/p>\n<h2>Arriving at a decision you are happy with<\/h2>\n<p>Go at your own pace when it comes to exploring your sexuality.<\/p>\n<p>For some young people, worries about their sexual orientation can become really difficult to manage.<\/p>\n<p>If this is the case, it may well be a good idea to discuss things with an adult you can trust.\u00a0 This may be a family member of carer, a professional such as a school nurse or a GP, or someone else you trust.<\/p>\n<p>These kinds of difficulties are not seen as specific mental health problems and are usually a normal part of growing up. However, in some cases the level of distress that such uncertainty can cause may need additional support.<\/p>\n<p>If you think that this may apply to you, you should ask for this, (if possible with support from a family member or carer, or alternatively by yourself) from a professional such as a school nurse or a GP.<\/p>\n<div class=\"nhsuk-care-card nhsuk-care-card--non-urgent\">\n                <div class=\"nhsuk-care-card__heading-container\">\n                    <h3 class=\"nhsuk-care-card__heading\"><span role=\"text\"><span class=\"nhsuk-u-visually-hidden\">Non-urgent advice: <\/span>Further support<\/span><\/h3>\n                    <span class=\"nhsuk-care-card__arrow\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/span>\n                <\/div>\n                <div class=\"nhsuk-care-card__content\">\n<p>There are some helpful websites with information about sexuality.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Childline: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.childline.org.uk\/info-advice\/your-feelings\/sexual-identity\/sexual-orientation\/\">Sexuality<\/a><\/li>\n<li>YoungMinds: <a href=\"https:\/\/youngminds.org.uk\/find-help\/looking-after-yourself\/sexuality-and-mental-health\/\">Sexuality and mental health<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n            <\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sexuality is a complex concept which combines how you feel about your body and body image, your gender, your feelings, who you\u2019re attracted to and what you want from life. 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